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Most of us don’t burn out from lack of effort. We burn out from thinking it should be working faster.

The Problem Isn’t That We’re Unmotivated

Runners aren’t lazy. We wake up early. We train through bad weather. We grind out miles when it’s inconvenient. So when we start feeling stuck, the issue usually isn’t a lack of motivation, though, we may think it is.

It’s our expectations.

We expected to feel fitter, faster, or more confident by this point. And when that expectation doesn’t line up with reality, it creates friction. Friction becomes frustration. And frustration is what actually kills consistency, not fatigue or laziness.

If we misjudge the timeline, we’ll misjudge our progress.

Why Expectations Sabotage Progress

When we begin training with a vision of fast progress, we’re not preparing for the long haul. We’re hoping to get lucky. We expect that if we just work hard for a few weeks, we’ll get the return. But effort doesn’t follow a two-day shipping schedule ;)

What actually happens?

• The workouts feel harder than expected.

• The improvements are smaller than expected.

• The timeline stretches longer than expected.

And because it’s not meeting our imagined schedule, we start assuming something’s wrong, either with the plan, with our effort, or with us.

But in reality, we’re doing the exact right thing. It’s just taking the exact amount of time it always takes.

Recalibrate the Timeline

We don’t need to lower our goals. But we do need to get smarter about when those goals will actually come together.

Here’s what that looks like in practice:

• Expect to feel stuck sometimes. That’s part of the process—not a sign of failure.

• Expect visible progress to lag behind real progress. Your body is adapting before it’s obvious.

• Expect to improve slowly. Because slow progress is the only kind that lasts.

Consistency doesn’t come from constant progress—it comes from expecting the pauses, the plateaus, and the unremarkable stretches.

When we stop expecting quick wins, we free ourselves up to keep working. And ironically, that’s what leads to the wins anyway.

Wrap It Up

Motivation isn’t the thing we’re missing. It’s the expectation that we should be further along that drains us.

So instead of trying to manufacture more motivation, we reset the timeline. We remind ourselves that improvement is slow, and that what we’re building is worth waiting for.

Because once we stop expecting it to happen fast, we finally have the patience to let it happen for real.

And with this mindset, we can build a routine we love and train consistently. Because with consistency, we build passion.